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FOR MEN

What Are My Rights As The Father?

This is a good question to ask. And just by asking it, you're on the right track. Standing beside the mother of your child is where you belong. After all, you're the father.

You helped bring the mother and baby to this moment. So it's only right that you should ask questions and help make decisions.

You're also right in not suspecting for a moment that this will all go away and be forgotten. You know that from this day forward, you have created life and that life is in your hands.

Becoming your child's legal father gives you the chance to be a dad. You get to have a say in legal matters concerning the child and the child gets a chance to grow up secure in the love and support of both parents. When parents take responsibility for a child, the child builds a sense of identity and gains better self-esteem.

How to Establish Paternity

With your concent, a legal form is signed by both parents establishing paternity. There are many names for this form. For example, the form may be called a paternity establishment affidavit, declaration of paternity, or consent agreement.

You can get the form at the hospital where your baby is born or at the child support office. (Call Tarrant County Child Support at 817-884-1475.) You can also contact the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement, 370 L'Enfant Promenade, S.W., Washington DC 20447, 1-202-401-9373. If present at the hospital, both parents will get information about the rights and responsibilities of paternity.

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